Like Naj has mention earlier...this "doing it" thingy..it really does disturb the both of us..
What is so cool about losing ya virginity?
Are there red ants in your underwear that you can't put on them for long?
or is orgasm just addactive as Farrer Roche?
It's not as if u need to pay a million dollar to say "No" to premarital sex..Trust me is wasnt that difficult..I know coz I did said No to it once before..n this people who are actually doing it..I dont know what is in their freaking brain..look i am not talkin about adults man..I am talkin abt kids my age..I am not sayin that I am the most innocent, angelic, well balance teens around.. but hey I wasnt playin with my vagina when I was 13 or 14..
Gosh I dont think some of these guys even know the meaning of "Statutory rape" or "Carnal Abuse" is and they are already having sex..n some of this guys..I some how think they are paedophilic..so their victims are usually girls age btw 13-16..if this were to continue may be we will be lack of "anak dara sunti" around..however, the guys are not the only one to be blame.. the girls are just as bad..the other day one of us (me/ naj) was chattin with one of our friend..he did it coz his gf was all "geared-up" for it..then he said " I don't knw sia..We did it! n now i have to stay with her.. but I my feelings towards her only 50:50"..at fist I laugh so hard coz that girl barely have any boobs but then i SWEAR TO GOD my jaw felt as if it drop down to earth when i inform that she wasnt even 14..gosh i was still watching nicklodean when i was 14!
So much for the "save yourself for marriage" campaign and the sex education thingy..it seems as if its a wasted effort..sometime i really wonder what their virginty means to them..n virginty is not the freakin way to show your commitment to your partner..isnt it?! n if u think u're in love n u can foreshadow that this is goin to be person u are gonna marry..gosh i think u shud do a reality check n start including God in your plan!
whenI hear this kids are Malay/Muslim i some what felt humiliated! though they are not related to me..i knw prolly some of u guys think i am talkin cock coz u might have seen me holding hand or kissing with some of my ex (3 of them in total) n i might not be the most innocent untouch girls around but hey i did my weighing..until when? i am gonna do this shit! at the same time i am not being prejudice to all this non-virgins out there..well all i have to say just pray hard that yr future spouse can accept the fact that u're not a v but first pray that Allah swt wont include that sin on judgement day..
I dont why i am typing abt this stuff prolly b'coz it disturb me n leadin me to feel humiliated..or may b coz I felt insulted when one of my guy friend said
"u mean u are still a virgin?!"
then i ans
"what do you expect? just b'coz u think i am a bimbo that doesnt mean i am not a V..I am still one n i am f**kin proud to say it..that i am a virgin"
gosh when are they gonna stop f**kin ard?!